WEEKLY COACHING TIP #150

YOU CAN’T HAVE IT, IF YOU CAN’T FEEL IT!

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 As a reader of the WCT I’m sure you probably set goals many times in your life.

 Sometimes setting goals is a straightforward process:

1. First you get very clear about what you want. You have 100% desire.
2. Then you surface any limiting beliefs that may prevent you from achieving it.  You clean them up so they no longer hold you back.
3. Finally, you begin the very first action to achieving your goals and you monitor your progress as you go along, changing it if you need to.

This is a great process, obviously very simplified here, and I’ve used it both for myself and my clients for many years and it works extremely well.

For the last 18 months or so, I’ve added in a fantastic process for really manifesting your desires much more quickly and it’s a lot more fun too! 

Think of it like this:

1. Imagine a film or video of you having already accomplished your goals, SEE it, HEAR it and FEEL it.  Really get into those feelings it should make you feel wonderful. 
2. Now, see that picture moving TOWARDS you, you are not pushing towards it, you are being compelled, magnetised towards it until you are ‘living it’ in those very moments.   Imagine it on a big screen actually coming towards you, it should excite you. You do this visualising and feeling it several times a day.

Most goal setting can be a chore because either it’s not exciting enough (usually because it’s not aligned with who you really are, or it’s nothing to do with your greater purpose) or people try to achieve it as if it’s something on their ‘to do’ list. This can be so de-motivating.

The most important thing about setting goals so you feel magnetised, is that it’s a process and you are working inside/out.  When the inner conditions are right, manifesting your goals and dreams is so much easier and quicker.

The key is Knowing your Desire and truly Believe you can have this and then Align it with your Vibration.  This is CRUCIAL. 

Where many people go wrong and can’t understand why they can’t get what they want, is because they decide on their goals and even believe they can and deserve to have it, but then, they often, immediately after visualising it, think something like:

“It’ll probably take years” or “it hasn’t manifested yet and I’ve been doing it for months.”

This kind of thinking cancels out the vibration so they never get what they truly desire.

Now I help clients to really focus, laser like on activating their vibrational feeling. Once this ‘training’ is in place it’s amazing what happens.  Of course there is a whole lot more to it that just that, believe me, but it’s also incredibly interesting and exciting!

In essence, however, you are creating an expectant, joyful mind set.   Imagine feeling that good every day!  Determination and will power become out-moded strategies when you become aware and ‘re-programme’ yourself for the abundance and happiness you so rightfully deserve.

If you’d like to know more about his why not join my next free Teleclass and discover how you can live the life of your dreams!

This Teleclass will be on Monday 15^th August, from 7:30 to 8:30p.m. British Summer Time. The number of participants is limited so reserve your seat now by emailing mailto:freeteleclass@coachinginspirit.com

Feel free to pass this to anyone you think may benefit.

Until next week Onwards and Upwards

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